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Client & Supervisee Testimonials

‘I had recently come out of an abusive relationship with my boss who used his position to exploit me in his pursuit of academic ambitions. By the time (seven years) I sought help I was a nervous wreck with an occasional lack of desire to continue living. My miseries were also being exacerbated by many unconventional difficult situations and rejections I had faced earlier in my professional life, and sometimes stressful and overbearing relationship with elder sibling and family hardships. It was by a big stroke of luck that I found Steven when I was in dire straits. By my second session, I felt a connection that I reckoned I should have with a therapist. Trust came easily and naturally. More importantly, I felt safe. It was a journey that went on for over a year. I found Steven’s incisive discernments enlightening and guided me to discover, understand and accept myself. Steven recognised I had forgiven everyone but myself; he also made me appreciate how my unconscious grieving of the loss of lost opportunities was ruining my present life. Steven worked with me using a combination of counselling approaches, predominantly psychodynamic psychotherapy and person-centred-approach. One of the best things about working with Steven was his full attention with no distraction like taking notes. He has a remarkable memory and would remember every important detail. I felt I was his only client. I had the help of anti-depressant and an exceptionally supportive partner during my therapy but what I achieved from my sessions with Steven is something that only a professional therapist can provide. I would highly recommend Steven to anyone who is suffering. For me looking for a suitable therapist was overwhelming, it was like looking for a needle in a haystack, there’s just too many to choose from! I could not have asked for a better therapist. If there is anyone looking for help it is my hope that you would stumble upon this testimonial and have a fruitful work with Steven… and, learn to live life again happily.’
NA

‘I came to see Steven to help understand my volatile temper. He created a pleasant environment in which to talk and our conversations ranged much further, and deeper, than that original remit. Steven really helped me to understand my needs and motivations and to realise areas that I want to improve. I now feel much more centred, confident and in control of my emotions. He is an excellent therapist and I highly recommend him.’
KM

‘I sought help from Steven in my struggle to make sense of and manage my reaction to major changes in my life. These included adapting to living in London after rural life and adjusting to a transformed social life following my marriage, all against the background of the structural change of retirement. I wanted to work through these issues, with an active steer. Steven has helped enormously to lead me to a much clearer understanding of how my emotions work, what triggers and reinforces states of anxiety and low self-esteem, and how to keep these in perspective. He challenged a habit of negative self-deprecation and self-analysis that occasionally got out of hand, giving me the impetus to do the same for myself and to become a more positive actor in my relations with others. His intervention has guided me from pessimism to (generally!) contented realism.’
RH

‘I cannot speak highly enough of Steven. I came to see him after a painful relationship breakup and was in a very difficult place mentally. Steven’s approach gave me the space to explore the various aspects of my life which were causing me anxiety and exhausting me emotionally. Once these had been identified I was able to move on a live a happier, more confident and productive life. Steven is the first therapist I had ever seen and my time with him opened my eyes to the field of cognitive behavioural therapy and the innumerable benefits of seeing a therapist. It’s a thoroughly life-enriching experience and I would recommend it, and Steven, to anyone who feels they want to talk to somebody.’
FA

‘I decided to pursue counselling with Steven while experiencing a particularly busy and stressful period in my career and life generally. I had been suffering with anxiety attacks in a variety of day-to-day situations and felt that I really needed guidance on how to get my life back to normality. Through a number of sessions, Steven and I were able to look back and explore my past, and understand where many of my problems and challenges had stemmed from. We were then able to work together to develop an approach to reduce my anxiety. I have found my weekly sessions with Steven to be invaluable in gaining perspective on my life, my relationships with family and friends, and my plans for the future.’
JW

‘As a trainee counsellor, I entered therapy with high expectations. Steven has always been sensitively responsive to my needs and encouraged my autonomy. I felt safe and Steven helped me to discover and introduce new perspectives to my life.’
AN

‘I sought therapy due to the pressures of work in the banking industry. I had never had therapy previously and felt slightly apprehensive at first, but after the first few sessions I managed to relax sufficiently to get the most benefit from being listened to and supported in my difficulties at work. This also allowed me to face up to some issues stemming from my failed relationships and troubled past with my family. I felt that every step of the way Steven was there with me and this enabled me to work through these difficulties and see the light at the end of the tunnel.’
ML

‘Having had counselling before I started working with Steven, I considered myself an ‘expert’ on therapy but I soon realised that each therapist is different and Steven encouraged me to work on things that I felt were important for me rather than setting his own agenda. This allowed me to bring up some of my earliest childhood traumas and deal with a lot of anger and sadness which I realised was affecting my current life and relationships.’
KT

‘Steven was my first clinical supervisor. He supported me in a non-judgemental and professional way throughout my growth as a trainee psychotherapist, meeting me exactly where I was in my development. Steven helped me make sense of what supervision was when I first started, and allowed me to explore the challenges I was facing as a trainee practitioner from keeping boundaries, to dealing with endings and erotic transference. I am grateful to have met him early in my career.’
AR

‘I want to say that the last five months have helped me to feel more confident in life – in work and personal situations. I am smiling so much more and I feel I have accomplished so much in a relatively short time. I know I have work to do, but I feel Steven has pointed me in the right direction.’
BR

 

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